Welcome

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At our events, we prioritize consent, respect, and community well-being. That’s not just for safety. It’s also what makes our play, connection, and community more fulfilling, fun, and deeply human.

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💬 What is Consent?

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Consent means that everyone involved is saying an enthusiastic “yes” freely, clearly, and without pressure. It’s ongoing, can be changed at any time, and is about mutual agreement, not just the absence of “no.”

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Here’s what consent isn’t:

• It’s not “they didn’t say no.”

• It’s not “they didn’t stop me.”

• It’s definitely not “they agreed once, so it’s always okay.”

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💗 What is Respect?

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Respect means recognizing others as full humans, with feelings, boundaries, and needs that matter. It includes:

• Listening when someone sets a boundary.

• Checking in rather than assuming.

• Keeping everything that happens at gatherings private and confidential.

• Taking no graciously, even if you feel disappointed.

• Being clean.

• Behaving with care in shared spaces.

• Not fantasy-pushing. That means not trying to involve someone in your kink or fantasy without their clear, informed consent. It can feel uncomfortable or even violating when someone’s treated like a prop in a scene they didn’t agree to.

• Knowing everyone’s here for different reasons. Not everyone is looking for sex, play, or touch. Some folks are here to socialize, learn, be seen, or just exist in a safer space. All of those are valid.

• Being emotionally safe by avoiding love-bombing, gaslighting, manipulation, contempt, and by bringing curiosity, care, and repair if needed. 

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When we respect one another, we create a space where more people can feel safe to express, explore, and connect. That’s when the real magic happens.

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🌱 Why It Matters

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Consent and respect don’t just prevent harm, they open the door to deeper trust, joy, pleasure, and freedom. They help build a culture where everyone thrives, not just survives.

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You deserve to feel safe, valued, and free to say “yes,” “no,” or “maybe.” And so does everyone else.

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Disclaimer

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By attending events at this community space, I acknowledge that I am responsible for my own safety and belongings. I understand that the organizers, space, and hosts are not liable for any injury, loss, or harm that may occur. I agree to take care of myself, respect others, and participate at my own risk.